My Mission Statement


My mission is to help people live more liberated and embodied lives using the healing power of pleasure.

My Vision Statement


My vision is a world where expansive pleasure narratives improve our quality of life and decrease stress and trauma.

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Who is Dame Sadie?


I was born and raised on the ancestral lands of the Nacotchtank (or Anacostans) also known as Washington DC. 

I am a descendant of a matriarchal lineage of free thinkers, creators, teachers, leaders, healers, preachers, and disruptors.

I am Black, a Mother, Herbalist, Coach, Educator, Visionary, Creator, Kinkster, Energy worker, and Bodyworker.

The Pillars of My Practice


PLEASURE

Pleasure is a birth, right especially for the marginalized people of the global majority.

Pleasure is a part of the anecdote to the chaotic relics of colonization.

Choosing pleasure over productivity is a radical act of reclamation that heals the body.

The exploration and development of your pleasure narrative is integral

to living a life that centers freedom. 

EARTH MEDICINE

Tapping into the Earth medicine of  water, trees, animals and soil reminds us we a part of the ecosystem.

Crystals are vibrational allies to our living bodies.

Herbal virtues can support ritual, spiritual connection, healing, and wellness.

MINDFULNESS AND MEDITATION

Your body is your first altar.

Sharpening your antennae to it’s infinite wisdom is the scaffolding of our connection to ourselves, our ancestors, the earth, and source energy.

There is no mind, body, spirit split.

Instead, there is a cellular level relationship which requires the nourishment of them all.

Breath, sound, and movement activate your ability to tap into your bodies wisdom.

ADORNMENT

Adornment is a ritual that can be a shield or invitation. 

Adornment can be an external communication of your internal values.

COMMUNITY

Care, accountability, empathy, and kindness support symbiotic healing

of the self and community.

Some healing can not be done in isolation. Loving community is essential. 

Shame, judgement, and fear degrade our connection to ourselves and community.

Opportunities to Connect:

Kink as a pathway to body autonomy

Understanding Consent

Relationship coaching

Intentional Community building skills

Erotic Embodiment and Massage

Mindfulness, Meditation, and Movement

Herbalism for expanding your pleasure

Reiki

Crystal healing

Sacred Sexuality

Sexual Healing

Healing from Harm

Cultivating relaxation

Masturbation Coaching

Pleasure and Parenting

Custom copper and crystal jewelry

Bodywork

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